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S\u00e4\u00e4lin saa ilmatteeks, mutta kateus t\u00e4ytyy ansaita. Vanha sananlasku, jonka totuusper\u00e4st\u00e4 en ole aivan samaa mielt\u00e4. Vai onko kateus sittenkin ansaittua? Kannattaako olla kateellinen?<\/p>\n

Ajatuksena kateus on melko typer\u00e4 ajatusmalli. Tiettyyn rajaan saakka se voi olla eteenp\u00e4in viev\u00e4 voima, ei tosin kovin j\u00e4rkev\u00e4 sellainen. Olen miettinyt, ett\u00e4 miksi minua harmittaisi se, ett\u00e4 naapurilla on hienompi auto ja isompi talo kuin minulla. Tai se, ett\u00e4 kaverit k\u00e4yv\u00e4t malediiveilla ja etel\u00e4mantereella ja niill\u00e4 on isompi telkkari.<\/p>\n

Er\u00e4s tuttavani sanoi minulle joskus viisaasti, kun kysyin h\u00e4nelt\u00e4, ett\u00e4 harmittaisiko jos voittaisin arvasta 200 000 euroa, sill\u00e4 arvalla, jonka h\u00e4n minulle osti. H\u00e4n totesi siihen, ett\u00e4 ei se olisi minulta pois, miksi se minua harmittaisi. Niin. Miten se on minulta pois, ett\u00e4 joku toinen katselee elokuvansa isommasta telkkarista kuin min\u00e4 tai voittaa lotossa paljon rahaa? Ei mitenk\u00e4\u00e4n, joten miksi olisin siit\u00e4 kateellinen?<\/p>\n

Olisihan se hienoa saada paljon rahaa, voisin ostaa yhden (ainakin) kitaran, mist\u00e4 olen haaveillut, saisin hommattua harrasteauton (Caterham 7, kuva alhaalla), joka on ehk\u00e4 siistein auto maan p\u00e4\u00e4ll\u00e4. Kyll\u00e4, voisin saada nuo, mik\u00e4li olisin valmis tekem\u00e4\u00e4n niiden eteen paljon t\u00f6it\u00e4. En vain ole valmis tekem\u00e4\u00e4n sit\u00e4 uhrausta, mit\u00e4 niiden saaminen vaatisi. Nautin vapaa-ajastani, yst\u00e4vieni seurasta ja terveydest\u00e4ni niin paljon, ett\u00e4 valitsen mieluummin ne kuin tavarat. Tosin, jotkut voivat olla kateellisia my\u00f6s niist\u00e4, vaikka nekin ovat kaikkien ulottuvilla.<\/p>\n

Kuten moraali ja etiikka, ei kateuskaan ole objektiivinen asia tai sellainen asia, joka nyt vain on n\u00e4in. Se on yht\u00e4 opittua kuin muutkin tavat ajatella asioita. Kateus kuuluu mielest\u00e4ni yht\u00e4 hy\u00f6dylliseen kategoriaan kuin katkeruus ja viha. Niist\u00e4 ei ole oppimista enemp\u00e4\u00e4 hy\u00f6ty\u00e4. Ne ovat joskus varmasti jokaisella ihmisell\u00e4 l\u00e4sn\u00e4, mutta niille ei pid\u00e4 antaa valtaa ja liiaksi voimaa.<\/p>\n

Jos jollain on jotain sellaista, jota oikeasti haluat, ei siit\u00e4 kannata olla kateellinen. Mik\u00e4li oikeasti haluat jotain, sen eteen t\u00e4ytyy tehd\u00e4 t\u00f6it\u00e4, menn\u00e4 tavoitteita kohden. Omien tavotteiden asettaminen ja niit\u00e4 kohden kulkeminen antaa paljon enemm\u00e4n kuin toisten kanssa kilpaileminen ja heid\u00e4n voittaminen ”kenell\u00e4 on isoin traktori” -kilpailussa.<\/p>\n

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