{"id":595,"date":"2017-12-06T09:15:12","date_gmt":"2017-12-06T07:15:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tatu.chanth.org\/?p=595"},"modified":"2018-06-13T09:18:09","modified_gmt":"2018-06-13T07:18:09","slug":"kohteliasuudet-turhuutta-vai-ei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tatu.chanth.org\/?p=595","title":{"rendered":"Kohteliaisuudet, turhuutta vai ei"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Meill\u00e4 on Suomessa muutamia typeri\u00e4 sanontoja, kuten: kell\u00e4 onni on, se onnen k\u00e4tkek\u00f6\u00f6n ja itku pitk\u00e4st\u00e4 ilosta. Aika monta muuta yht\u00e4 masentavaa ja typer\u00e4\u00e4 lausahdusta on olemassa, niit\u00e4 ei tosin jaksa muistella.<\/p>\n<p>Olisi hienoa, mik\u00e4li kohteliaisuuksien sanominen olisi enemm\u00e4n arkip\u00e4iv\u00e4\u00e4 kuin nyt. On hienoa, jos sanoo jollekin, ett\u00e4 olet kaunis \/ komea, tai ett\u00e4 sinulla on miellytt\u00e4v\u00e4 \u00e4\u00e4ni, niin vastaus on yksi sana: kiitos. Ei itsens\u00e4 v\u00e4h\u00e4ttely\u00e4, ei vaivaannuttavaa hetke\u00e4, jolloin koetetaan keksi\u00e4 vastakohteliaisuus. Kehuminen tulee olla pyyteet\u00f6nt\u00e4. Vaikka siit\u00e4 tuleekin itsellekin hyv\u00e4 mieli.<\/p>\n<p>Miksi se on niin vaikeaa kertoa toiselle, mik\u00e4 h\u00e4ness\u00e4 on hyv\u00e4\u00e4? Ja miksi on viel\u00e4 vaikeampaa keksi\u00e4, mik\u00e4 itsess\u00e4 on hyv\u00e4\u00e4? Onko meid\u00e4t kasvatettu siihen, ett\u00e4 se oma kynttil\u00e4 pidet\u00e4\u00e4n <a href=\"https:\/\/fi.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Vakka\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">vakan<\/a> alla (taas, mik\u00e4 sanonta, vakka on sit\u00e4paitsi usein puuta, tyhm\u00e4 idea laittaa sen alle kynttil\u00e4)? Jos niin on, niin voisiko siit\u00e4 kasvaa ulos ja tehd\u00e4 tuoreemmista sukupolvista v\u00e4h\u00e4n enemm\u00e4n kohteliaita niin muita kohtaan kuin itse\u00e4\u00e4nkin?<\/p>\n<p>Opettelin tuota itse, ei ollut helppoa. Edelleen pari pient\u00e4 asiaa, mink\u00e4 kanssa painin, mutta pikkuhiljaa p\u00e4\u00e4sen sinne, minne olen menossa. Sitten asetan uuden tavoitteen. Ilman tavoitteita, ei ole etenemist\u00e4. En\u00e4\u00e4 ei harmita k\u00e4vell\u00e4 peilin ohitse. Eik\u00e4 siin\u00e4 ole mit\u00e4\u00e4n v\u00e4\u00e4r\u00e4\u00e4, ett\u00e4 pit\u00e4\u00e4 omasta ulkon\u00e4\u00f6st\u00e4\u00e4n sek\u00e4 omasta itsest\u00e4\u00e4n ja sanoo sen \u00e4\u00e4neen. Se ei ole omahyv\u00e4isyytt\u00e4. Viel\u00e4 kun oppisin sanomaan useammin muille, mitk\u00e4 asiat ovat heiss\u00e4 miellytt\u00e4vi\u00e4 tai vieh\u00e4tt\u00e4vi\u00e4. NIin miehille, kuin naisille, jopa tuntemattomille. 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