{"id":118,"date":"2014-12-08T18:55:55","date_gmt":"2014-12-08T16:55:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tatu.chanth.org\/?p=118"},"modified":"2014-12-08T18:55:55","modified_gmt":"2014-12-08T16:55:55","slug":"lapsena-vanhempien-arvojen-varjossa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tatu.chanth.org\/?p=118","title":{"rendered":"Lapsena vanhempien arvojen varjossa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Lapsuus on j\u00e4nnitt\u00e4v\u00e4\u00e4 aikaa. Kaikki on silloin uutta, jokainen p\u00e4iv\u00e4 on j\u00e4nnit\u00e4v\u00e4, koskaan ei tied\u00e4 mit\u00e4 eteen tulee. Jokainen asia on yht\u00e4 mielenkiintoinen ja ihmeellinen sek\u00e4 luonnollinen. Ei ole valmiiksi ohjelmoituja geneettisi\u00e4 ep\u00e4luuloja tai asenteita. Ihmeellist\u00e4 aikaa.<\/p>\n<p>Sitten peliin astuu ymp\u00e4r\u00f6iv\u00e4 maailma yh\u00e4 enemm\u00e4n. Vanhempien ja muiden aikuisten asenteet alkavat pikku hiljaa juurtua lapsen mieleen. He, joihin lapset eniten luottavat, heid\u00e4n tavat ja asenteet my\u00f6s usein omaksuvat. Lapsena siin\u00e4 ei ole mit\u00e4\u00e4n ihmeellist\u00e4, jos kaksi miest\u00e4 pussaa ja halaa. Tai jos mies ja kaksi naista asuvat yhdess\u00e4. Kunnes tulee vanhempi ja kertoo kuinka se on luonnotonta ja ett\u00e4 heit\u00e4 kannattaa v\u00e4ltell\u00e4. Siit\u00e4 syntyy asenne, joka saattaa kest\u00e4\u00e4 koko loppuel\u00e4m\u00e4n ajan.<\/p>\n<p>Mit\u00e4 sitten tapahtuu, jos lapsi varttuessaan teini-ik\u00e4iseksi, huomaakin, ett\u00e4 pit\u00e4\u00e4 seksuaalisesti vieh\u00e4tt\u00e4v\u00e4n\u00e4 samaa sukupuolta olevia kuin h\u00e4n itse? H\u00e4pe\u00e4\u00e4k\u00f6 h\u00e4n sit\u00e4 tilannetta? Kohta 10 vuotta h\u00e4n on is\u00e4n ja \u00e4idin suusta kuullut, kuinka se on luonnotonta ja v\u00e4\u00e4rin. Uskaltaako h\u00e4n kertoa siit\u00e4 vanhemmilleen vai yritt\u00e4\u00e4k\u00f6 h\u00e4n tukahduttaa sen tunteen ja el\u00e4\u00e4 vanhempien normien mukaisesti?<\/p>\n<p>Mietin my\u00f6s niit\u00e4 nuoria, joita kiinnostaa t\u00e4m\u00e4 ymp\u00e4r\u00f6iv\u00e4 maailma omaa ulko-ovea pidemm\u00e4lle. Sanooko joku vanhempi lapselleen ett\u00e4 noi on niit\u00e4 kasvissy\u00f6j\u00e4hippej\u00e4, jotka luulee olevansa parempia kuin muut, vaikka oma lapsi haluaisi olla juuri sellainen, kasvissy\u00f6j\u00e4hippi joka ei halua tappaa, eik\u00e4 sit\u00e4, ett\u00e4 h\u00e4nen ruokansa eteen tapetaan. Saati, ett\u00e4 olisi kiva hengitt\u00e4\u00e4 edes jokseenkin puhdasta ilmaa. Milt\u00e4 se tuntuu?<\/p>\n<p>Oma veikkaukseni on, ett\u00e4 se tuntuu lapsesta ja nuoresta pahalta. Kielteisten asenteiden siirt\u00e4minen ja julistaminen on ehk\u00e4 pahin asia, mink\u00e4 voi lapsille tehd\u00e4. Olen itse onnekas, enk\u00e4 ole moista k\u00e4yt\u00f6st\u00e4 is\u00e4lt\u00e4 kokenut. Aina on saanut olla oma itsens\u00e4, eik\u00e4 v\u00e4heksynt\u00e4\u00e4 ole valintoihin tullut. Ohjeita kyll\u00e4 ja ne onkin olleet hyvi\u00e4. Kaikki ei ole n\u00e4in onnekkaita.<\/p>\n<p>Aiheeseen sopiva mainos Australiasta:<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=8AcWo3gbtBk\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=8AcWo3gbtBk<\/p>\n<p><\/a>Aiheeseen mielest\u00e4ni sopiva kappale:<br \/>\n<a href=\"open.spotify.com\/track\/7ps9Jhbrys3b0mTuELLaHC\" target=\"_blank\">Viikate &#8211; Kuolleen miehen kupletti<\/a><br \/>\n(spotify linkki on tuo, toivottavasti toimii)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lapsuus on j\u00e4nnitt\u00e4v\u00e4\u00e4 aikaa. 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